The Golden Rules of Bondage
Bondage is daring, but that doesn’t mean it has to be daunting.
If you like the idea of spending time with an escort because it allows you to try new things, bondage may well be something that has crossed your mind. So, you want to explore the world of bondage with an escort, but how do you communicate that, and where do you start? Let us explain the golden rules of bondage with a high-end escort.
Educate Yourself about the Rules of Bondage
Before you launch yourself into experimenting with bondage, please familiarize yourself with the many terms and tools associated with it. This way, when the time comes to try it out, you can communicate with your escort and let her know what equipment you are excited to include in your encounters. For example, beginners might like to use a leather paddle, a whip, handcuffs and a ball gag before moving on to more elaborate and adventurous spreader bars and restraints.
Communicate with Your Companion
Once you know a bit about the rules of bondage, communicate your desires to your companion. This way, she can understand what it is about bondage activities that turn you on and this way, she can make sure the encounter is tailored to you and your comfort levels. This is a great way to decide who will be dominant and who will be submissive. Establish a safe word that either of you can use if you begin to feel uncomfortable. This establishes clear boundaries before you begin.
Start with the Senses
The world of bondage can seem strict and severe to a newcomer, but there are plenty of exciting and thrilling ways to ease your way in. One of these ways could be to simply wear a blindfold. For many, wearing a blindfold is their first foray into the bondage scene. The blindfold gives your companion control, and the wearer becomes submissive by default. A blindfold has many benefits; one is that it makes you feel a little less self-conscious if it’s your first time; the other is that as it dulls one of your senses, it automatically heightens the others.
Have Fun with It
Yes, bondage is sexy and naughty, but it isn’t meant to be serious. Like any other sexual activity, approach it with fun and humour, and you will find you enjoy experimenting with the many tools on offer.
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